Someone commented on a post about me missing Jacob saying that if he “fucks a waitress ect. that it’s vacation pussy and doesn’t actually count as cheating.”
Where in the world do people come up with their morals? It disgusts me to think that people actually believe that if they are away from their s/o that the pretense is it’s okay to cheat because it’s a “get away.” It is never okay to cheat regardless of time, place, situation, s/o availability or any variation of such where you may be come sexually aroused and feel the need to put things in orifices they do not belong.
Maybe I’m just old fashioned and Jacob and I were both raised the “old fashioned” way but we take our relationship very seriously. We believe that the ultimate goal of a relationship it to get married. We do not play around in our relationship. We both made it clear that our relationship is between us and God. We have both managed to maintain a healthy mental and emotional relationship. We have chosen to remain chaste until were married.
If you honestly want to know whats wrong with our society, it’s “hook up” culture. It is so hard to form a true connection with someone when all you do is have sex. All Jacob and I have done in the last year is Kiss and hold hands.I think that we have lost what “love” really means when we randomly hook up with people. I’m really blessed to have such a wonderful man in my life that I know I can trust on “guys weekend”. I know that he is up at camp sitting around a fire drinking beer with the boys.